You can either love me, hate me, or envy me. Over time I've tried to ignore the stupidity and jealous minds of those on the outside trying their hardest to see what's going on in my life. It's hard enough living my own life, but having "he said she said" entering into my domain is causing me more problems now than ever. So I say this to everyone, before you go off the deep end about something you heard, please investigate the situation and find out the facts for yourself. Because face it folks, people lie and for whatever reason they just do! I'm not saying to be naive about what you heard, but don't jump to conclusions. Misery loves company and when you are not in company with it, it seeks to find you. Love those who love you and respect those who give it back, but trust no one but yourself. For if a situation arises that puts you in an uncompromising position you have only yourself to blame. I'm not saying that this always works, for that matter, nothing does, but at least you know where you stand. Also, the word friend is overly used and too often taken out of text. Just because you see someone all the time rather at a club, supermarket, work, the gym or whereever; dosen't automaticaly make them your friend! More times than ever I hear people scream "oh thats my friend" when they should be saying "thats an acquaintance of mine". It's getting so you don't know who to trust anymore because of this very reason. So before I go here's one more piece of advice about those people that we consider friends, sometime your best friend can be your worst enemy!